A triangle be congruent to a quadrilateral because congruent shapes have the same sides and angles. If the number of sides/angles is not even the same, how can the two sets be the same?
An isosceles triangle be congruent to a triangle that is not isosceles because an isosceles triangle has two sides with equal length. If a triangle is not isosceles, all its side lengths are different, so the three sides can't have the same length