Fatimah's self-esteem levels would be much higher than Grayson's based on the ideas of Carl Rogers.
Carl Rogers was a humanistic psychologist who's beliefs and studies centered around humans' need for empathy, acceptance, and genuineness. If Grayson's parents only loved her when she met their expectations, then her own self worth would be based solely on how she meets those expectations. Her environment did not support those three needs, meaning her self esteem levels would not be as high as Fatimah's. Unlike Fatimah, whose parents supported her human needs of empathy, acceptance, and genuineness, Grayson's parents did not support those needs. This would lead to Grayson's self esteem being much lower than Fatimah's.