First the aceleration:
Vf² = Vo² - 2ad
a = (Vf² - Vo²) / 2d
a = (0 m/s)² - (1,5 m/s)²) / 2 * 0,4 m
a = -2,25 m²/s² / 0,8 m
a = -2,81 m/s²
Now, for the net force, use 2nd law of Newton:
F = ma
F = 3,5 kg * (-2,81 m/s²)
F = -9,835 N
The force for stop the bowling ball is -9,835 Newtons.