Ok so this is most likely around the Shang dynasty as I’m guessing?
If likely then your peeing rulled by and emperor and if so you would prolly want to be in his family line because your going to have more opretunities being that your families rich and they have control of the middle class and lower class
If your family is problmaticly in the lower class your going to problem be serving or you are a slave to middle class or your forever in-depth to your emperor so you serve him as his servent
If your in the middle class your family’s main guy in the family will most likely serve in the war along with the king if the king or emperor asks or requested it.
I hope this helps..
-mk