Adding and subtracting big polynomials like these are pretty easy. You just need to combine like terms. For example:
1.)
![{5x}^(2) + {3x}^(2) = {8x}^(2)](https://img.qammunity.org/2020/formulas/mathematics/middle-school/jxifvz6hpq6o2gkswuov7t2j7jfbotsr8m.png)
2.)
![({3x}^(2) + 5xy) + (7xy + 2) =](https://img.qammunity.org/2020/formulas/mathematics/middle-school/2b0zqhfhqcmcy2vr1cotx9f67rkj20qpef.png)
![{3x}^(2) + 12xy + 2](https://img.qammunity.org/2020/formulas/mathematics/middle-school/u14bp6y1ruqefynqiqaeu88eiraitboq3x.png)
(The 3x^2 and the 2 stay intact while the 5xy and 7xy combine together)
All you have to do is combine the numbers that have the same powers of x and y with each other. x^2 will combine with x^2 and xy^2 wil combine with xy^2 exc. If there is no other number with the same x and y's, then you just leave it as it is in the answer.
Now with the original question, I see a -9xy^3, and thats gonna combine with the 3xy^3 in the second polynomial and the 2xy^3 in the third one.
![- 9x {y}^(3) + 3x {y}^(3) + 2x {y}^(3) = \\ - 4x {y}^(3)](https://img.qammunity.org/2020/formulas/mathematics/middle-school/82wi31k7hdj6t19f3evtjbkem70dpu86gx.png)
So far we have -4xy^3, the next term is going to be a -9x^4y^3, and that's gonna combine with the 3x^4y^3 in the third one.
![- 9 {x}^(4) {y}^(3) + 3 {x}^(4) {y}^(3) = - 6{x}^(4) {y}^(3)](https://img.qammunity.org/2020/formulas/mathematics/middle-school/2leshigaat0vcbe1lb0q4e2tyepwgjaotj.png)
We now finished adding the like terms that were in the first polynomial, we will move onto the second polynomial. The first term in this one is 3xy^3, in which we already added in the first step. At this point, it doesn't look like there are any other terms that have the same x and y behind them. So we can move on and write the final answer:
![- 4x {y}^(3) - 6 {x}^(4) {y}^(3) + 7 {y}^(4) \\ - 8 {x}^(4) {y}^(4)](https://img.qammunity.org/2020/formulas/mathematics/middle-school/bud1qdz7ah06rar9fyxl7q1pfowcm0is4q.png)
(All on the same line of course)
Also, for your second question, the order does not matter in which you write the terms. I could write the 7y^4 behind the -8x^4y^4 and it would still be the same answer.
If you have any other questions let me know :) while I double check my work.