Disruptive language occurs when there is understanding but conflict still occurs.
When you use comparisons, people will be able to understand your point from different perspectives.
When you use specific and clear language, most everyone can understand exactly what you mean, because everyone understands very specific and clear descritions.
When you qualify opinions, then people can better understand what you're saying.
Answer
All of the above
It is all of the above because every single one of them has their benefits.