Question

QUESTION FOR THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY: I'm female, I use she/her pronouns, I also identify as lesbian. If i find someone attractive that uses she/they, she/him, all or any pronouns or is genderfluid, am I still lesbian? Please answer, i don't mean any harm or offense, i am just genuinely confused. This is a safe space and i intend to keep it that way, so no trans/homophobia in this chat. Thank you for commenting your suggestions!

Answer 1

I seem to have the same problem sis- Sexuality is fluid so, it doesn't matter if your sexuality fluxes in and out. I've developed (what I believe to be my own sexuality that im not sure anyone has come out as yet.) Dojasexual (where your sexuality fluxes with the person/people your interested in)- But back on to my main point, the pronouns don't matter. That's the person's preference. That's preference of the person. As for the genderfluid/FTM (if that's in the equation.) dilemma, when they're identifying as female. You would still be a lesbian (hypothetically-). Depending on if your still interested you may be able to identify as Dojasexual (yet again I have made it to what I believe to be.), Bisexual or whatever you feel is right for you. Labels aren't for other people to sort you but only for you to feel comfortable. Any questions can be asked within my comments on my questions! -xoxo Taylor aka GR0UPIEL0VE

Answer 2

If you dated a person who used just he/him pro nouns you would not be considered a lesbian but if you did date someone genderfluid you still could be considered a lesbian it’s your partner on the other half that would not be considered a lesbian because they have there own category for what they are