How can you tell if a guy doesnt put the effort in being with you anymore, its online and long distant cause he lives 8 hours away from me and were both 17 have already experienced heartbreak, it was great and fun at first and he was so shy and loving and wanted to meet but now he’s dodging to see eachother and every night we call before we both go to bed and sleep while on call but after my mother passed away June 29th hes been distant and mostly plays his game Smite idk if he’s serious about me i mean he tells me he loves me and ofc i love him back hes my entire world in my mind, im always very wholesome with him he says but when i ask how he feels he says he doesnt know and i dont show it to him but that kinda hurts when the guy doesnt know... anyway if you have any advice please tell me im desperate and i cant seem to keep my feelings from leaking out and it just hurts i dont wanna tell him cause then he will be upset and i dont want that..