Anyone who wants to get away with studies should run away from finding themselves into meaningless activities such as substance abuse; I mean, there are much better things to put away our money for, such as: eating healthier foods, signing up for the gym, and so on, it can work away, give it a try and I hope I have lit the light inside you.
To keep a partner from going away, one should stay away from boredom in the relationship. Otherwise, these sensitive creatures walk away and put away all behind themselves, try my guides, and you'll stay together until one passes away.