Answer:
Both has great consequences, but the first statement is better
Step-by-step explanation:
The first statement is better off because it can be settled ,what ever is causing aggressiveness,intolerance and pushy can be settle and forgiven, but what ever has been taken to court to settle has gone beyond recompense, also trying to compromise the other party in court can be so bad because if you finally succeed , what ever the outcome maybe, it is of great consequence and it can have much impact in the other party. There are some actions that can be addressed instead of going to court and trying to compromise the other ,that is why I prefer the first statement, as intolerance and aggressiveness can still be settled compared trying to compromise other party in court room