Step-by-step explanation:
You aren't living the life you want to live because aren't asking the right questions. Thus not taking the right kind of questions. Rather than lamenting on your poor and sad life, what are you actually doing to make a change??
Unhappy or unfulfilled individuals ask lousy questions: Why I am not getting what I want? Why does my life suck so much? Why is life so boring?
And you get what you ask for. You get all the answers of why your life is so pathetic and this doesn't get you anywhere but to a life full of misery.
On the flip side, successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers. Rather than limiting questions, ask yourself: In what areas of my life I am not happy? Is it the quality of my relationship, wealth, health or spirituality? How can I make a change so that I do get what I want?
Maybe you aren't that good socially and have issues making friends. Join a toastmaster to shape your public speaking skills and boost your confidence at the same time.
Maybe you are too thin or overweight. Hire a fitness coach; sign up for a 5k and take baby step towards getting the body you want to get. Feeling great in your body will boost your confidence.
You have some financial difficulties? Depending on your skills and talent, get a job where you will be an asset. Everyone has something where they excel! Take 30min and write down all the things you are good at and things you are passionated about. Maybe you don't have a special skill but if you had one, what would it be? Get a low pay job and keep investing in yourself through books, seminars, podcast and mentorship. Keep pushing yourself intellectually.
Hey! Maybe it's time to get that degree you've never got and get some new friends at the same time? Did you just see how doing one thing can improve other aspects of your life? Everything overlaps for the best or the worst.
Whatever you hold in your mind on a consistent basis is exactly what you will experience in your life. And if you keep doing what you have always done, you will get what you have always gotten.
Take some baby step. Whenever you fall down, you can either choose to lay down on the ground forever and blame the world for it or you can get stronger by getting better and wiser.
Be responsible for your own life. You get what you ask for. If you ask for misery and a pathetic life, you will get it. If you want to live an outstanding life full of passion, excitement and love, you will eventually get there if you ask the right kind of questions and take the right kind of actions.
Best of luck.