Question

Craig’s wife died a month ago, but every night he puts a plate out for her. He refuses to accept the fact that she is gone. What stage of grief is he MOST likely experiencing?

anger

acceptance

denial

bargaining

Answer 1

Denial—if he is refusing to believe she is gone, he is denying it. Therefore, he is in a state of denial.

You can also ask yourself: does he sound angry? Does he sound at peace, like he has accepted it? Does he sound like he is pleading or bargaining for his wife back?

If your answer to all of these is no, then as a result, you’re left with denial.