The speaker in "Remembrance" is planning to continue to live her life, and try not to think of her pain so much. In this poem, the speaker explains that her lover died some years ago. Since that time, she has never been truly happy again, and her life feels much emptier. However, she also tells us that, as time has passed, the pain has decreased. Although she might never love in that way again, she has decided to stop reflecting on what she lost, and instead focus on continuing her life.