In the poem Barbara frietchie, stonewall Jackson say " Who touches a hair of yon gray head/dies like a dog! March on!" after Barbara leaned out the window. Option 1 is correct.
"Shoot, if you must, this old gray head,
But spare your country's flag," she said.
A shade of sadness, a blush of shame,
Over the face of the leader came;
The nobler nature within him stirred
To life at that woman's deed and word;
"Who touches a hair of yon gray head
Dies like a dog! March on!" he said.
Barbara Fritchie was a Unionist during the Civil War. She became part of American folklore in part because of the poem written by John Greenleaf Whittier.