Parallelograms have opposite sides that are equal, so you can set BC and AD equal to each other to find the value of x if the figure is a parallelogram.
x + 3 = 2x - 1
3 = x - 1
4 = x
Now check
4 + 3 = 2(4) - 1
7 = 7
The value of x that makes ABCD a parallelogram is x = 4.
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