Our outer differences don't define us. it doesn't matter whether you have blond, brown, or red hair. But the thing that does define us is how we see the world. We can be negative and grouchy or we can be happy and not let stuff get under our skin. You can choose not to study for a test but if you do it could bring up your grade and in turn will make your parents proud. We are all different and what defines us isn't what we look like but what we act like.