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This is kinda a dumb question, but please help

So I'm a 13 year old girl, and I can't date till I'm like 16 or something. (I also don't want to date)

I am going to a Lock-in tomorrow, and a lot of guys were hitting on me last time.. I think they think I'm older than 13, because I am super tall. I don't mind guys hitting on me, but I really don't like physical contact.
The guy who stays with the teens at the lock-in is an adult. He is also married and has three kids, but when he gets the chance to, he will touch my shoulder and once he touched my butt... I was not ok with this, but I didn't say anything, because I didn't want to ruin other people's night. I don't want to not say anything, but I don't know how to approach him. Please help me!

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A man that is an adult, married, has kids, and is touching 13 year old kids inst something you should be afraid of that's a coward, you dont even have to approach him tell a teacher or an adult about him and there you did your part and the adult you told will do his/her part 
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Rather than approaching him; try to approach a loved one, or law enforcement/superintendent if it's in school.
They will keep you anonymous, the chances are he has done it to other girls so he wouldn't know who told.
No adult should touch children like that, its absolutely prohibited and inappropriate for someone that age.
I advise that you remain calm, and always remember that you are beautiful, strong, and independent.
Let no man or woman degrade you of that status.
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