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I wanted to tell her she shouldn’t be playing Scrabble yet. Or looking in the mirror. Or turning the stereo any louder than what you needed just to hear it. It wasn’t fair to Dad, and it wasn’t fair to me.
The tone of a literary work is the attitude of the author towards certain topic. Therefore, a melancholy tone refers to a feeling of sadness and serious thought.
The lines from "Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close," by Jonathan Safran Foer, express Oskar's difficult relationship with his mother. In that respect, he still mourns his father and wishes she would not try to enjoy herself.