The two statements that best describe the conflict are first number one.Helmer is controlling. Because of these implied rules society creates, he cannot let anyone see that a woman, his wife in this case, has any influence in his overall decisions. Helmer is glad that he is the authoritative husband, he is proud abot his position in the bank, too.The other is number three.Helmer does not like the way Krogstad behaves ...."he has no restraint on himself..."This tactless fellow..".." that sort of thing s extremely painful for me.."He is conntradictory and it appears he wants to be protective for his children.However, he seems to take advantage of his position to hurt people, specially Nora.